Love is both passion and skill. It’s both heart and head. If you make it all heart and emotion, it will become a delusion. If you make it all head and skill, it becomes impersonal and ineffective.
If you love unwisely, you can kill yourself or be injured in vain. But if you stop to teach your passionate heart how to love, you will transform both yourself and others with your loving.
Love is good. And it must be defined well and executed well.
You have to learn how to love well. It just doesn’t happen spontaneously!